The introduction a few weeks ago of Intentional Eating is part of a plan to help you and I, as participants in the body of Christ, live the abundant life God calls us to live. The world is pulling us away from this abundant life through many channels.

One channel is our environment; another is our fast-paced lifestyles. I’d like to explore how this is taking place first through our environment. Think about this scenario with me for a minute. Since the early 1900s your grandparents and mine were introduced to the industrialization of food. In the process, the environment in which we all live began to change.

For many areas of the country, the days of growing our own food were gone. Wheat milling and food oil production went to large food companies and life became “better than sliced bread”. Or so we thought. Although noble and good, mass-producing food for millions of people is tricky. The problem is keeping it from spoiling or going rancid.

Hence the development of preservatives. But then there is the other issue of appeal and making money. This bland food looks unappetizing and pretty scary. Well, the grand idea of food developers is, “Let’s give it more color!” Red, yellow, and blue dyes began entering the food supply. In addition to those changes in our way of eating was the development of hydrogenated oils, that were cheap and easily manufactured by the seed-oil industry.

The cheaper oil gives food flavor, alongside added sugar and salt. The problem?

As each generation grew and had children chronic disease began to rise. Autoimmune diseases, chronic bowel diseases, autism, heart disease, and diabetes began to expand and take more and more American lives.

Instead of an aging population of healthy, victory led Christians ready to share the gospel with the world, we became this group of people plagued with inflammation. The American Medical Association’s plan to fix this problem is to medicate it. Well meaning doctors are trained to treat the symptoms and not the root cause of the disease.

Therefore, when we look around now, we see a spiritually free, yet bodily broken group of people struggling to find the abundant life Jesus calls us to live. We’re looking for ways to gain more energy, get better sleep, and lose the pain and fatigue zapping our strength and our witness.

The Second Deception: Fast Paced Lifestyles

The second deception surrounding you and I is our fast-paced lifestyles. Does anyone have family dinner around the table anymore? Social norms to keep up have us rushing from 40 to 60-hour work weeks to running kids to practices and games. With this pace, where to we rest, do homework, have meaningful conversations, listen to one another, or bond?

You and I fall victim to convenience. McDonalds has it all for you, and KFC is right around the corner. The food companies and fast food restaurants are capitalizing on our need to feed our families on the go. They’ve thought of everything. Even creating the right amount of salt, fat, and sugar to get us all addicted and coming back for more.

Their food calls to us in our free time with mouthwatering commercials and promises for fast delivery. The entire trajectory of lifestyle becomes how do I meet my needs and my family’s needs and still enjoy life? Eat out, buy easy to prepare meals, and depend on ultra processed food for feeding my family.

The Solution for Getting our Energy and Health Back is Intentional Eating.

Our mindset is vital to the process of getting our energy and health back and I believe intentional eating is a start. Yes, we are still going to participate in birthday parties, special events, and consume the world’s sugar and grease filled items. My hope is we learn to do it in a manner that does not steal our health.

The truth of the matter is when we are exposed in our mother’s womb, go to school and daycare and get the same junk over and over again, then graduate college and start our own families, the cycle of convenience becomes a daily need. An idol of sorts we never thought possible because it’s just food.

We have to have food, right? How can we be addicted to it?

No one, including myself, thinks they have a food addiction. That is, until we embark on the next diet adventure or try to eliminate a processed food item for our own good. At that point, our eyes are opened pretty wide. We wake up thinking about it and our mouths water or when the presence of our favorite item flashes across our T.V. screen and we cave into its clutches all over again.

We are battling the flesh in the most vulnerable way possible, in the form of something we need to survive.

The apostle Paul understood the struggle so well! After a long battle with his desire to please God and please his flesh he says:

“For those who live according to the flesh set their minds on the things of the flesh, but those show live according to the Spirit set their minds on the things of the Spirit.”

Romans 8:5

The good news is God’s original plan in the garden gives us a way out. We just have to be intentional about how and when we do it.

In the scriptures, God gives clear instruction on how to follow him spiritually and physically. Since you and I are three-part beings, everything we do physically has spiritual impact. Just as everything we do spiritually has a physical impact. Focusing on Him for emotional needs and following His guidelines in the bible for our physical needs, will enable us to live an abundant life.

Mysty PFeffer

Emotional Needs and Intentional Eating

Emotional needs are effective in derailing our intentional eating in several ways. Is food a way of coping with life. You know the unmet need-to-be-filled emotional roller coaster we venture upon when we’re bored, tired, sad, or lonely.

In looking at these emotions it is helpful understand our relationship to food. Yes, we have to have it to live, but are we relying on food for comfort more than the Bible and promises of God? Do I feel empty inside? Have I always turned to food for comfort?

For others, it may not even be a relationship but mindless munching. Regardless of the reasons, we place a high value on pleasure and convenience in the choices we make every day. 

The sad part is the choices we make are so automatic they require no thought or effort on our part. Don’t feel guilty at this point or beat yourself up, because our culture has taught us to think this way.

The advertising and the internet cookies make sure they know what you and I want when we type our first three letters into the search bar. They’ll even provide tempting pictures and headings of the items we look at often.

However, what would it look like to stop and think before every choice? Asking myself questions like, “Do my choices honor God and the temple of the Holy Spirit? Do they help me function the way He designed me to function?

Of course, we do…sometimes!

The late Dr. Rex Russell’s book, “What the Bible says About Healthy Living” shows us a better way. He gives us three principles of eating the foods God created for us, not altering God’s design, and not allowing food or drink to become an idol are simple and realistic lifestyle goals (1996).

So, with surrender and dependence on the Living God for guidance, here are 15 strategies to begin Intentional Eating:

Intentional eating begins with being aware of the things discussed above and developing a clear view of how the environment and lifestyles play a role. I have a really nice tool to help us discover where we truly stand in behavior, values, and choices. We can then pray for God to show us areas of possible addiction/idolatry that are hindering our daily function. We can also pray for wisdom to remove harmful substances and making them less desirable.

Remove toxic food or food altered from God’s design from the weekly grocery list. If the package has ingredients we cannot pronounce, it has been altered from God’s original design and is meant for shelf life not our lives. There are replacement items that are healthier and less toxic.

• Although we don’t want to waste food, intentional eating involves reading every label in the pantry, cabinet, and refrigerator. With our minds set on God and His plan, we can pray if we should buy it again. Also ask Him what we can replace it with, or maybe make our own version with ingredients we can pronounce.
• God created vegetables and fruit with powerful antioxidants. To date, over 8,000 phytochemicals have been identified by Scientists. These antioxidants work together to fight cancer, environmental damage from pollution, heart disease and more! Therefore, eating a variety of three to four servings a day are recommended to prevent disease.

  I know this is hard for people who don’t like vegetables. They must not have had a mom who insisted on them at least trying them frequently at mealtime as a child. The rewards of giving them another try makes retraining taste buds worthwhile. It can be done with fasting, prayer, removal of processed food, and repeated exposure. I cover this in week two of the STRENTH approach to Christian wellness.

• Give thanks for every day God gives us to be alive and an encouragement to someone else. We have the beauty of God’s Garden at our fingertips in every grocery store. It is an honor and privilege to have so much produce available to help us function. As we place Him high and lifted up in value above His provision for our daily comfort, we displace our potential idols.
• Another intentional eating approach is to understand it is not necessary to eat meat every meal, every day. Exchanging pork and beef for beans, legumes, vegetables, whole grains, nuts, and seeds, is a good start as we see clear direction in Gen 1:29. Eating chicken and red meat once a week in addition to plant items will give us adequate protein. Remember the festivals in the Old Testament? Israel ate meat at special occasions or for special guests.
• Eating more fish is an excellent way to improve heart healthy, inflammation reducing omega 3 in God’s eating plan. Jesus served fish, ate fish, talked about it and used them in his miracles. It’s worth eating frequently and abundantly. However, Dr. Russel points out in his book, shellfish and catfish are bottom feeders and toxic chemical filters, they will make you sick! Therefore, they are not on God’s list of good things to eat.
• Dr. Russell also reveals in his book that pigs eat until they are engorged, and they’ll eat anything, including raw sewage. Have you ever sat down to eat pork, and it smelled funny? Their stomachs can’t handle all the food, so it seeps into their muscle, along with all the toxins, chemicals, parasites, and viruses they consumed. So gross, you and I may rethink this process before eating pork (1996).

     Using portion control keeps us from placing food in the idol position. Since our stomachs are roughly the size of the fist, a plate just a little larger than the fist will hold what our bodies need. Experts suggest balancing the plate with a healthy protein, fat, and carbohydrate. The great news about eating from God’s Garden is vegetables and fruit provide all the macro and micronutrients we need to live!  God loves us bunches, doesn’t he?

       Slow down when chewing. Digestion begins in the mouth with an enzyme called amylase. Honestly, how many times do you and I frequently swallow half-chewed food? More than I care to admit. It will help you enjoy your food more, make your satisfied quicker, and digest it better with less gas and bloating.

     Avoid eating three hours before going to bed or after supper. Eating right before bed can interfere with sleep and the body’s natural detoxification process. Fasting during this time allows it to remove toxins and wastes more effectively. It’s also a good time to wind down and begin a time of reading and prayer. Such practice helps prevent food or drink from becoming a God.

   Drink plenty of water, the standard 8-10 glasses, depending of energy exertion is a nice guideline. Unless there is a reason for water restriction in people on dialysis or with heart failure, it is safe to consume this amount of water each day.

   Reducing soda consumption is a smart and intentional way to reduce caffeine, sugar, and artificial sweeteners.  Also, the phosphoric acid in soda beverages rob calcium and precious minerals from the bones. A process that especially harmful for children who are building bone and adults who are trying to maintain the bone they have!

Excess caffeine, sugar, and artificial sweeteners are thieves of good health. God didn’t make or even think about His people drinking pop (according to the bible). But man, sure has a way of making this poison look and taste appealing to line his pocket.

 Alcohol consumption is another thief of health. It may be best for special occasions, or if it’s an addiction, avoided altogether.

 Last, but not least, intentional eating helps us be aware of sugar intake. Large amounts of sugar contribute to diabetes, premature aging, decreased muscle tone, robbing of minerals from the blood to balance its effects, hyperactivity in children, obesity, cancer, decreased immunity, and heart disease. And this is only the beginning. Removing or drastically decreasing our desire for this substance is something to pray about.

Encouragement for Implementing Your 15 Strategies of Intentional Eating

In conclusion, God has plenty to say about what he put in the original garden as “good”.  He also gives us plenty of warning about idolatry. Any substance that has power over our everyday decisions and our health is an idol. But he has given us a way to overcome the world, the flesh, and the devil. His son came a took all our sin upon himself in his death and redeemed us through his resurrection.

 Praise God, we can count on the Holy Spirit to guide us through this process.

I am happy to serve you and offer recipes, and strategies to begin intentional eating. Pleasing our Father in heaven more may become more rewarding than satisfying our physical cells in the days to come. I find this hard too, and I’m with you, so if you need a coach to walk alongside you, I am here! Contact me at Mysty Pfeffer Wellness Coaching.

REFERENCES:

BibleGateway.com: A searchable online Bible in over 150 versions and 50 languages.

Russell, Rex (October 2006) What the Bible Says About Healthy Living, Revell, 304 Jones Cove Rd. Asheville, NC 28805.

Grace to self for times of weakness is the topic for week six’s STRENGTH Approach to Christian Wellness. Let’s face it, we all have setbacks, obstacles, and moments of weakness. Showing ourselves grace keeps us from condemnation because change is a process.

Victory comes in permanent lifestyle habits that build a stronger mind and body. But as we know, it doesn’t happen in one or two weeks. A better understanding of grace to self comes when we have a better grasp of God’s grace.

For instance, the biblical definition of grace is typically described as unmerited favor from God. We cannot earn grace because it is the Sovereign will of God. Throughout the Old Testament this favor was bestowed upon Noah, Abraham, Israel, David, and many others.

As we look at the New Testament, we see the term grace most often associated with salvation (redemption of our souls) and sanctification (becoming more like Jesus).  However, there is also a new aspect of power in the Spirit as a nuance to the term (Elwell, 1997).

Acts 6:8 “Stephen, full of grace and power, was doing great wonders and signs among the people. 

Acts 4:33 And with great power the apostles were giving their testimony to the resurrection of the Lord Jesus, and great grace was upon them all.

Romans 1:5 We learn from Jesus, through whom we have received grace and apostleship to bring about the obedience of faith for the sake of his name among all the nations.

Bible Gateway.com

It’s interesting that alongside this power from the Holy Spirit, we also see suffering and stewardship linked to grace (Elwell, 1997).

Titus 2:11-12– For the grace of God has appeared, bringing salvation for all people, training us to renounce ungodliness and worldly passions, and to live self-controlled, upright, and godly lives in the present age.

1 Peter 4:10 As each has received a gift, use it to serve one another, as good stewards of God’s varied grace.

Bible Gateway

Grace is given so we are strengthened in times of weakness. So, we look like a people called to live for God and not slaves to things of this world.

What makes a biblical view of grace so important for us today?

We are facing astronomical attacks on our bodies and minds every day! We need the power of grace outside ourselves to counteract daily attacks. You and I may be aware of gaslighting (repeated messages used for mind control) and fearmongering tactics among the media. But the manipulation of our minds does not stop there!

The attacks come through substances we are fooled into thinking is fuel for our bodies too! It is so subtle we experience extreme guilt when we lose control.

However, promises of pleasure and fulfillment in advertisements and social media alongside additives and flavorings in food, are only meant to bring you and I back for more.

The deceptive manipulation of our minds and taste buds hits the dopamine center of our brains that controls feelings of pleasure.

My friend, doctors around the country are speaking out and warning us about the dangers to our minds as well as additives and chemicals addicting us to products. Dr. Daniel Amen, Dr. Robert Lustig, and Mark Hyman are just a few doctors sounding the alarm.

All these doctors have developed functional medicine plans to help people get real and permanent relief from chronic pain and inflammation. But also to eliminate food addiction. What we can learn from these doctors is how processed food is contributing to disease, and depleting our bodies, and our minds, of vital nutrients.

Nutrients that help us fight obesity, dementia, cardiovascular disease, anxiety, ADHD, depression, or brain fog.

So, today grace starts with letting go of the guilt and becoming aware of how badly we’ve been deceived. The addictive properties of food are partially to blame. They act upon the neurotransmitters in our cells to create the pleasure response.

Moreover, when we’re facing stress, loneliness, and depression, we want the pleasure center activated. However, the more we allow ourselves to respond in this way, the harder it is to stop the habit.

Dr. Amen says, we build tracts in the brain with the repetitive behavior. Did you know that electrical pathways in the brain inhibit reasoning and will power as a result of addiction?

Dr. Pradip Jamnadas, an interventional cardiologist and founder of the Galen Foundation, describes casomorphines in cheese, gluteomorphines in bread, artificial sweeteners, and sugar cane as catalysts to inhibit reasoning in our brains. 

They sound like drugs, don’t they?

I will link Dr. Jamnadas’ YouTube video below so you can visit the site and listen for yourself. It’s called, “Addiction: Why We Can’t Fast or Keep a Diet.”

The bottom line is we must replace the harmful habits with helpful habits that are accessible, realistic, and will become doable routines (Amen, 2020). But first, we’ll have to fast and pray as our Comforter, Councilor, and Mighty Prince of Peace gives us the power to resist.

The Daniel Fast is a great place to start! I can help you with this! Once our old taste buds die off in 10 to 12 days and are replaced with new ones, we can defeat brain depleting temptations.

I have some great preparation ideas in some of my workshops and during Wellness Coaching, I’d be happy to help you with developing a new approach. In the meantime, I will pray you are empowered with wisdom and knowledge so you can give yourself grace in times of weakness.

I leave us with Psalm 19:7-14 as we stay the course:

References:

Amen, Daniel, Amen Clinic, Your Ultimate Guide to Gut Health | Amen Clinics

Biblegateway.com

Elwell, Walter A. Entry for Grace, Evangelical Dictionary of Theology 1997.

The Galen Foundation, December 24, 2021

Time is moving on! It’s already week four of the Strength Approach to Christian Wellness. I pray these last three weeks of strategies will help you establish lasting change. Today’s strategy is E=Engage Others for Support.

Now, the last thing you and I want to do is engage lightly. It is not a flippant effort to get someone else involved in what we are doing. Rather, it involves establishing a meaningful contact or connection. Because, my friend, we cannot do the most challenging things alone.

Take the engagement of Mary to Joseph, for example. The betrothal agreement at that time was in essence a marriage; however, it occurs prior to living together and consummating the marriage. Timothy S. Lane and Paul David Tripp in their book, How People Change point out the many instances in the bible where we, as Christ followers, are married to Christ.

Lane and Tripp ask, “What does it mean to be married to Christ?” Jesus loves us so much he died for us, so his affection in bringing us into relationship with Him is evident. When we are “married” to Christ, we honor him with our attention, our bodies, our consumption of goods, and even our attitudes.

But do we truly honor this engagement? How do we place things, people, food, jobs, success, or money ahead of Him? Lane and Tripp say in their book we are enticed by comfort and after a hard day we think we deserve it. This quote in their book really resonated with me:

“Comfort and leisure are good things, but when my personal comfort becomes more to me than Christ, it impacts my behavior sinfully.”

Tripp & Lane

It sure does! That’s why I need to engage others for support. Honest, bible-believing friends and family are needed who not only encourage me, but hold me accountable for my actions.

Because, my friend, we cannot do the most challenging things alone. Loved ones may not understand at first the desire for new habits. However, earnestly enlisting their attention and support helps the process.

Think about how many times you’ve started a lifestyle habit and someone close to you unwittingly tempts you to take three steps back. 

Maybe well-meaning family and friends like us just the way we are. Or they may begin to feel a little insecure if we change too much. They like comfort and leisure as much as we do! Regardless of their reasons, our loved ones need to understand why our efforts and intentions for a better life are so important.

Sincere conversations with those we love engages them in the change process. When we share the heavy burden of discontentment with the way we are now, they truly understand why we need their support. Especially if the lifestyle change is avoiding certain establishments, vulgar language, violent movies, or bringing tempting items into the house.

Engaging Others for Support, Step by Step

Once the burden in shared, boundaries can be set in place to avoid temping, cajoling, or creation of circumstances to sabotage our efforts. Whether, the focus of our goal is to improve health, relationship, or reduce anxiety, asking for support is acceptable. Here is what this looks like in action:

1. Share your deepest desire to change with your trusted friend or loved one.
2. Tell them what areas you need help in the most. 
3. Ask them to pray with you and for you every day of your challenge.
4. Let them know ahead of time what activities you will not be participating in as you establish new habits.
5. Together, discover new areas of entertainment or activities that are equally enjoyable and place Christ first in our hearts.

Consider the following scriptures:

“Because there is one bread, we who are many are one body, for we all partake of the one bread.  1

Corinthians 10:17

“Let no one seek his own good, but the good of his neighbor.”

1 Corinthians 10:24

“For just as the body is one and has many members, and all the members of the body, though many, are one body, so it is with Christ. For in one Spirit, we were all baptized into one body—Jews or Greeks, slaves or free—and all were made to drink of one Spirit. If one member suffers, all suffer together; if one member is honored, all rejoice together.”

1 Corinthians 12:12,13,26

Change is a battle of our flesh against the temptations of the world and God’s will for us. He wants us to have Shalom–wholeness, harmony, delight, and flourishing (1). But our flesh longs for things not created or designed by God to allow Shalom to take place.

So, as you and I engage in this battle to improve our lives with sustainable lifestyle changes, we can call on friends, loved ones, and the body of Christ to encourage us along the way.

I am here with you and rooting for you!

References:

Lane, Timothy S. Tripp, Paul David 2019. How People Change, New Growth Press, Greensboro 27404

McLelland, Kristi, 2019, Jesus and Women In the First Century and Now, Lifeway Publishing, One Lifeway Plaza, Nashville, TN 37234

Welcome to week three of the STRENGTH approach to Christian Wellness. In week one I covered S= Strategies for lasting change and in week two T=Tastes that Satisfy. Today is R= Receive benefits of God’s provision in scripture and the garden. I pray you and I are ready to dive in and receive what God has for us today!

When we are in a posture to accept such a gift, we get a deeper appreciation of all power and authority belonging to God. He spoke the plants into being and gave them the ability to restore and repair cells. Our thoughtful, loving Creator knew what you and I would need before we came to be.

Let His kindness and care wash over you a few minutes.

Who loves you so much, that every need your physical body requires to function is placed at your fingertips? God does. He said,

“Behold, I have given you every plant yielding seed that is on the face of all the earth, and every tree with seed in its fruit. You shall have them for food.”

Genesis 1:29

However, God’s presence among us is even more impressive! Our souls long for Him and He is there. Opening the bible daily with intention, gives us all of Him. It is the living Word (Hebrews 4:12) capable of filling us with encouragement, wisdom, love, and strength.

The Lord is my strength and my shield; in him my heart trusts, and I am helped; my heart exults,
 and with my song I give thanks to him.

Psalm 28:7

He is our strength, and apart from Him we can do nothing (John 15:5) However, to receive what God has to offer, we must ask.

Jesus said, “Therefore, I tell you, whatever you ask in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours.

Mathew 11:24

But what is it we truly want to receive?

Is it a desire for more of Him and less of the world? It is less instant gratification ruling choices more than the Creator? Maybe it’s freedom from daily choices hindering lasting joy or fruit of the Christian faith?  The fruit of  the Spirit like love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, gentleness, faithfulness, and self-control (Gal 5:22).

The context of Mathew 11:24 shows Jesus and the disciples approaching a fig tree the day before and not finding any fruit on it for them to eat. Jesus said, “May no one ever eat fruit from you again.” The physical meets the spiritual as he moves on to Jerusalem and overturns the money-changers’ tables in His Father’s house. The house of prayer had been turned into a market place. The hearts of those in attendance, were far removed from the Lord and focused on their immediate needs.

The next day, the disciples witnessed the withered fig tree and Peter says, “Rabbi look! The fig tree you cursed has withered. Jesus answers, “Have faith in God. Truly, I say to you, whoever says to this mountain, ‘Be taken up and thrown into the sea’ and does not doubt in his heart, but believes that what he says will come to pass, it will be done for him.”

What is the spiritual or emotional mountain that you and I need to receive peace from today?

If we are feeling withered and drained of energy, focus, and excitement, we can pray to receive it today! God is faithful to the heart that believes He is capable. I believe, we’ll both find that he is willing to remove it from us and give us a contentment we’ve never known before.

In addition, benefits of receiving God’s Word, is how it renews our minds. We confess to the Lord Jesus Christ any emotion, addiction, areas of unbelief, or disregard for His provision in prayer. The mountain of guilt and shame we experience with every failure and weakness is lain at His feet.

Moreover, we have new eyes to receive God’s provision in scripture and the garden as compared to what the world offers. As the fleeting pleasures of the world fail to meet the deepest needs of our soul, the desire to give in to them will depart.

“But put on the Lord Jesus Christ, and make no provision for the flesh, to gratify its desires.” Romans 13:14

The table below shows a comparison of what we choose to receive from God and the scriptures and what we choose to receive from the world.

The bottom line is YOU and I matter to God.

Therefore, the daily choices we make matter to God, too. Our attitude, speech, tone of voice, how we treat one another and ourselves scream to the world where we stand in our faith. The food choices we make also reveal little appreciation for physical wellness.

But is does not have to be that way!

The hard truth you and I face daily in the mirror is we cannot do it alone. When we willfully seek the things of the flesh, and turn to receive things of the world to satisfy needs, we look just like the unbelievers around us.  The message sent to our Father in heaven, and the world is, “I know best”.

Furthermore, the serpent’s lie to Eve in the garden is still alive and thriving today. But God is not holding out on us! He sternly warned her son Cain to be cautious about his attitude and actions. I understand it as a warning for me and what I choose to receive as well.:

“…because sin is crouching at the door and it desires to have you, but you must rule over it.” Genesis 4:7b New International Version

Three questions I’d like you and I to ponder this week and pray about are:

1.  How much am I like Eve and Cain in choosing to receive what the world offers?
2. What part of this world holds such vast joy that I choose to receive it over God’s provision in scripture and the garden?
3. What mountain of habitual behavior (or sin) below inhibits me from living in full joy and what would it feel like to have victory over it for good?

Please know, I need this series as much as you do! I am praying for you and learning alongside you as I study God’s life-changing Word. May we both receive the benefits of God’s provision in scripture and the garden each day to live full lives!

Prayer:

God in heaven, you are holy, mighty, generous, and merciful! Your abundant provision in scripture and the garden are powerful to restore my mind and body. I need more of both, Lord, each day. Therefore, I confess my weakness of flesh, and my desire to please the flesh. May the harmful choices I receive from the world become repulsive. Please take away the guilt and shame and renew my mind. I want to walk completely with you, mind, body, and spirit. I want to fully function in peace and harmony that only comes with your instruction. In you, there is a contentment that surpasses all understanding, I ask, and I believe I will receive all of you today. In Jesus’ name I pray, amen.

Week 2 of Strategies for Lasting Change

Tastes are powerful motivators and distractors! Did you know our taste buds replenish themselves every ten to twelve days? (1) New cells can develop new tastes that satisfy as we begin to learn the value of intentional eating and why God’s Garden is so Good.

More importantly, tasting the Word of the Lord has more value and purpose than what He placed in the garden. King David, the Psalmist reminds us:

Oh, taste and see that the Lord is good! Blessed is the man who takes refuge in him! Psalm 34:8

We develop a taste for physical foods when we are in our mother’s womb. Shortly thereafter, as we develop and grow, we learn about tastes of a spiritual sense.

For instance, a fetus develops taste buds in her mother at around 10-13 weeks’ gestation. (2) Food flavors are transferred to the fetus through the continuous swallowing of amniotic fluid in the womb. Whatever the mother eats consistently throughout her pregnancy, is present for her child’s future preferences.

We all have favorite tastes. Some prefer the dark, rich, brew of morning coffee while others a fresh cup of juice. We consume salty chips with relish or a mouth-watering chocolate brownie fix with delight.  The palate preferences of bitter, salty, and sweet all evoke emotions and satisfy.

However, the one thing they all have in common… taste is fleeting.

It’s here one moment and in the belly the next. There is no lingering contentment, just desire for more. Furthermore, our memory of it creates mouth-watering anticipation when our eyes see the favored morsel again.

On the other hand, the idea of tasting the “heavenly gift” and the “goodness of God’s word” is far superior to any earthly item we consume (Hebrews 6:4-5). It provides lingering contentment for our souls. When we are transformed by the power of the Holy Spirit, we crave and savor God’s word more than our favorite meal.

Therefore, strategies for lasting change in tastes that satisfy begin with these simple steps:

Appreciate the flavors you are experiencing by slowing down the chewing process to 20 -30 seconds. Savor your favorite taste slowly and leisurely. Jean Kristellar, PhD., developed a Mindfulness Eating Program to help people with eating disorders. She suggests to be aware of all the flavors in the food, as well as the feelings associated with hunger and fullness. The more aware a person is of those true hunger pains and fullness, the less likely he is to overeat.

Research shows the first two bites of food a person eats are the most pleasurable, then taste sensation diminishes. So, a technique suggested in Kristellar’s program is to pick a favorite snack and make the first two bites last in your mouth a whole minute. One square of chocolate, for instance, may be enough to meet the pleasure spot on the pallet rather than an entire candy bar loaded with sugar and calories.

Replace sugar-loaded sides as the main meal or desserts with fresh fruit.  Whole fruits, rather than fruit juice, provides nutrients and fiber alongside their natural sweetness. If the fresh fruit is chosen as dessert the meal itself will have plenty of protein to avoid sugar spikes and lows.

However, if it replaces a sugary breakfast choice, add a couple of walnuts or almonds for protein. An example of this is peanut butter on an organic apple for breakfast or kiwi and plain yogurt with walnuts. The quality nutrients in this choice will give us more energy, and a sense of fullness throughout the morning.

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Doughnuts and sugar-laden cereals have next to zero nutritional value for children and adults. Making them a part of everyday life damages the body’s cells and leaves them hungry for real food. Nutrient depleted items like these were not on our Creator’s mind when He made us.

Give Vegetables Another Chance

Intentional eating approaches vegetables with a new mindset. It means changing the focus from an experience of “How will this make me feel?” to “How will this nourish me to do God’s work?” The more one understands the benefits of vitamins, minerals, and antioxidants in food, the more value it holds. The nutrients available supply added energy, stamina, and vitality. All important factors in living an abundant life and fulfilling our calling.

“When I was a child, I spoke like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I gave up childish ways.” 1 Corinthians 13:11

Although some people are reluctant to consume vegetables, it is a good idea to give them another try. Tastes and values change as we age and it takes several tries of various plants to develop a desire for them. Also, when tastes are accustomed to high amounts of sodium and sugar in processed food, the taste buds are trained and expect more of the same substances.

Retraining the taste buds can happen though, with good seasoning and highly fragrant spices.

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Fasting From Processed Food with Prayer

Removing processed food from the pallet for four weeks will diminish the desire. I know, who does that now days? We as Christ-followers, that’s who.  A fast of this nature can be done with prayer and scripture memorization.

Jesus said, “It is written “‘Man shall not live by bread alone, but by every word that comes from the mouth of God” Mathew 4:4

He also said:

Jesus said to them, “I am the bread of life; whoever comes to me shall not hunger, and whoever believes in me shall never thirst. John 6:35

The goal is to look beyond food for emotional satisfaction and think logically about what you and me, as Christians, consume each day. Do we live as though every day is a feast day?  Or, do we practice restraint when we sit down for a meal? “Are you and I eating mindlessly and not chewing slowly and savoring each bite with gratitude? I must admit, I am guilty of this more than I care to admit.

Eat Less Often and Smaller Amounts

People in Jesus’ day walked everywhere and ate what was available fresh. They ate fresh milled bread, curds, cheese, fish, fruits, and vegetables (Gen 18:8, Deut. 32:14, Gen 1:29, 1 Sam 17:18, 2 Samuel 17:29, Daniel 1:12-16 ESV) We have an idea of how much was acceptable to eat daily from the amount of manna the Israelites collected in the wilderness. The dry measure of one omer was about 3.7 quarts of bread per day for the entire family (Exodus 16:16).

A Simple strategy to implement as we follow their lead is to stop eating between meals and after dinner at night. Another is to remember the size of our stomach is roughly the size of our hand and using a plate that size helps us with portion control. Although the stomach’s stretching capacity is 40 times that size, Hiatal hernias and reflux disease are common among those who practice testing its limits.

Eating items rich in fiber, protein and nutrients may not only help us feel full, but remove cravings. Drinking water to offset false hunger is helpful alongside the first step of eating slowly during our meals and recognizing when we are truly hungry and full.

I hope with prayer and gratitude towards God and His provision, we will truly appreciate tastes that satisfy. More importantly, may we learn to rely on the goodness of His Word as the taste that truly satisfies! I am confident the strategies for lasting change can be done when our focus is off ourselves and on God.

Don’t forget, I am on this journey with you and I am here for you!

References:

Anatomy, Head and Neck, Tongue Taste Buds – StatPearls – NCBI Bookshelf (nih.gov)

AlJulaih GH, Lasrado S. Anatomy, Head and Neck, Tongue Taste Buds. [Updated 2021 Aug 11]. In: StatPearls [Internet]. Treasure Island (FL): StatPearls Publishing; 2022 Jan-. Available from: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK539696/

Developing and regenerating a sense of taste (nih.gov)

Barlow LA, Klein OD. Developing and regenerating a sense of taste. Curr Top Dev Biol. 2015;111:401-19.

Bite, chew, savor (apa.org)

By Amy Novotney, November 2012, Vol 43, No. 10 Print version: page 42

Intentional Eating Series 1

            Intentional eating begins with a new mindset. If I can clearly see a plan set before me to thrive, I want to be a part of it and share it with you. God’s plan from the third day in the garden is exactly where that begins. Mindsets change from what is pleasing to the flesh and become what is pleasing to God when you and I follow his plan.

He is pleased when we obey Him. I believe it’s just like when I am pleased my grandkids don’t run out into the street when a car comes. Preventing our hurt saves Him hurt.

Jesus said, “If you love me, you will keep my commandments. And I will ask the Father, and he will give you another Helper, to be with you forever”

John 14:15 ESV

Although we are sometimes taught to think of everything he said in spiritual terms, he put the spirit in a body, with a mind, that makes decisions every day. It’s easy to play the Pharisee in terms of other sins against the body than the one I am most guilty of…food.

You know, those certain items in the daily routine that have no nutritional value and are loaded with preservatives that are damaging to the cells. The “Frankenfoods” that are more than a habit, they’re must haves. When there is physical withdrawal from them or when my mouth waters at the site and smell of them, I might have an idol.

It may be easy for some people to deny food as an idol, but I’d like to see them give up their favorites to fast and pray so they see what happens. When you and I are intentional about eating what God provides in the garden, we are less prone to food idolatry and chronic disease. My friend, obeying God’s plan this way means less suffering for us, which is pleasing to God!

  “I see a day not long from now when every major mainstream media outlet proclaims this headline: Christians are the world’s healthiest people, with less heart disease, diabetes and obesity than the rest of the world and have a vibrant level of health”

Jordan S. Rubin

Can you see that day coming too?

I can, and it is my passion for the body of Christ. I have spent half of my life caring for, teaching, and comforting families of the sick and dying as a registered nurse. When I look at God’s plan unfold in the bible, I long for my brothers and siters to grasp the abundant life God calls them to live.

His plan is for our good and prosperous health! Not only that, but he provides everything we need to maintain and sustain the bodies he gave us to house the Holy Spirit.

I found the quote from Rubin, in the foreword of a book I just finished by Dr. Rex Russell, “What the Bible Says About Healthy Living.  Dr. Russell’s three principles are easy to follow and very rewarding.

1. Eat the Foods God Created for you
2. Don’t Alter God’s Design
3. Don’t let Any Food or Drink Become Your God “( 1996)

Intentionally incorporating this way of eating every day will change our minds about the choices we make each day. I don’t know about you but I’m tired of battling repeated sinus infections, colds, GERD, and arthritis pain! Changing my eating healed my irritable bowel syndrome years ago, it can help with these problems too.

 Even though I eat healthy; practicing 80 percent whole plant based, clean meat items, and 20% junk, I still suffer. I’m ready to start a new plan, God’s plan, with a new mindset. I will be sharing what I learn in Dr. Russell’s book and others in an upcoming workshop an on the Strengthen Your Heart blog with the STRENTH approach to wellness.

Stay tuned for times and dates for an Intentional Eating series as well. I am here for you and will pray with you and coach you any time!

References:

Russell, Rex, M.D. 1996, “What the Bible Says About Healthy Living” Baker Publishing Group, P.O. Box 6287, Grand Rapids, MI 49516-6287

The Lens of The World

Friend, is there an area of your life where you want to see some changes? It could be in a relationship, a habit, or a pattern of behavior you’d like to see with a fresh set of eyes.

I sure do!

In a bible study, I recently learned the lens I look through varies with each situation I’m experiencing. Can you relate?

For example, when Elijah was on Mt Carmel, God empowered him with confidence as fire fell from heaven and consumed the burnt offering. Yet, this proof of God’s power was not enough to keep him from running scared from his enemy, Jezebel. When she threatened to kill him, he fearfully fled to the wilderness (1 Kings 18:38, 1 Kings 19:1-3). Elijah is looking through the lens of a temporary situation instead of eternity or God’s purpose for him here on earth.

I wonder how many people respond to threats to their lives in a similar fashion. When I hear propaganda regarding medical issues, I look at the data through the lens of four years of nursing school. A solid background of disease processes and God’s design for immunity helps me make an informed decision. Although, I still must respond with gentle conviction to those who are convinced otherwise and live in fear.

The Lens of Relationship

However, in relationships I want to see grow, hold tightly to, and pray for solidarity, I sense distance. What is happening here?  Why do I make it about me and not see how the other person feels?  If I am looking through the lens of a mother, I still want to fix things that hurt my children. And if I’m looking through a wifely lens, I want to feel loved and listened to by my husband.

When they are no longer children, conflict arises because they don’t want their mom to fix their problems. They want her to listen without judgment.

I know, the first response is: “I don’t’ do that!” Let me assure you; I don’t feel like I judge mine either! Although a wise aunt I cried out to in a moment of despair reminded me, “Your whole life is before them as an example. When you live according to God’s word and not according to the flesh, your very actions and way of life make them feel judged.”

Not only that, my husband wants peace to think through his day when he walks in the door, not my onslaught of emotions.

A Change in Perspective

So, a change in perspective is imperative to strengthening these relationships. May the fruit of God’s Spirit override years of insecurity and allow me to respond with grace, love, peace, gentleness, and kindness amid these emotions.

I must be honest with you in these moments; it takes the power of the Holy Spirit to respond this way.

I will stuff my hurt feelings down for years to keep the peace in my family. Yet, it will always simmer below the surface in callous remarks or self-pity. My past brokenness is more likely to burst forth and rear its ugly head when I’m feeling unloved. The thought of people I’ve poured my whole life into not returning my devotion shatters me emotionally. I’ll either respond with anger or withdraw contact.

Even Elijah’s faith was challenged as he poured his whole life into reminding Israel who God is.  He didn’t just remind them of His goodness, mercy, and love but to be aware of God’s judgment. The prophet also urged them to turn from false idols and Baal worship. He didn’t just say what he believed; he lived it. The price is their eternal souls. Yet, exhaustion, lack of nourishment, and remorse for not successfully restoring the relationship of their leader with God left him feeling defeated. 

I am encouraged to hold fast to God and trust Him to bring my relationships through this refining process just as He did with Elijah. When Elijah sat down under the broom tree and begged God to take his life, “for I’m no better than my fathers,” I sense the enemy’s presence to discourage him and cut his mission short. In the same way, he often pains me in my response to my husband and children.

But God! Look what God does in response!

“Suddenly, an angel touched him. The angel told him, “Get up and eat.” Then he looked, and there at his head was a loaf of bread baked over hot stones and a jug of water. So he ate and drank and lay down again. Then the angel of the Lord returned for a second time and touched him. He said, “Get up and eat, or the journey will be too much for you.”

Biblegateway.com

The Lens of Scripture

The gentle care of Elijah at his lowest moment is so empowering today because I know God cares for you and me the same way. He sees the hearts of the people we long to reach in a much more profound manner than we do. God understands their pain, heartache, fears, anger, and uncertainty much more clearly. Not only that, he allows trials to take place in our relationships so both of us can draw closer to Him.

Please reach out to Jesus today in the area of change you’d like to see in your life. Here are the five steps I took this week to turn the tide of my despair into a change in perspective:

1. Pray and Confess to God my out-of-control emotions
2. Message and Ask 3 Trusted Sisters to Pray for Me
3. Message the person feeling hurt by me and apologize.
4. Let go and trust God to heal, in His timing, what I cannot.
5. Love people gently, unconditionally, and faithfully, despite how I perceive them treating me.

I admit this week has been rough, and I can’t say I handled it well. But I can say it was authentic. For a person who cries once or twice a year, it was a blessing to see a fresh area of faith in Jesus give me the power to change. By identifying the lens, I look through (past experience, past hurt, stuffing emotions, anger, and rejection), I can see where the enemy tries to threaten me and my relationships.

His ulterior motive is to drive a wedge between God and me, in addition to the people I love.

Sister, if I did not reach out to others and stay rooted in God’s word daily, Satan would have won!

However, the Spirit of the Lord was upon me; he quieted my longing for death and isolation and gave me life and the warmth of his presence. Flashes of His promises came to me in the form of scriptures I’d memorized. The words of my trusted sisters’ encouragement also gave me a calm resolve. I can trust God and His timing and I felt their prayers begin to break apart the ominous cloud over my soul as it began to dwindle.

Moreover, stepping out to make things right with the one feeling wronged the next day helped me appreciate their view of our relationship. It is far from perfect, but loving people well is a start to lasting change in perspective.

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